Let’s be honest – who doesn’t love having their pets close by, especially on special occasions? Our furry friends bring us so much joy and comfort. I have seen brides include their pets in engagement shoots, wedding ceremonies, and even during the getting-ready moments on their big day. Most commonly, these beloved companions are dogs or cats, but all pet owners know that any pet can be part of these memorable experiences. 🐶🐱
If you are deciding whether to have your pet with you while you get ready for your wedding, you are not alone. This is a popular question for couples who want their special day to be as meaningful and stress-free as possible.
BENEFITS – Reasons to Include Your Pet
• Pets can provide comfort and support, helping to calm pre-wedding jitters
• They soak up affection from others (if your pet enjoys attention, of course)
• Including your beloved animal helps create unique, heartwarming memories, even if they might not understand the occasion
• Your pet would not feel left out or lonely if included, especially if they are very attached to you
DRAWBACKS – Reasons to Be Cautious
• Pets can divert your attention away from important preparations
• There is a risk of them jumping on wedding outfits, knocking over flower arrangements, or causing accidents (like a near-miss with a bride’s dress that I witnessed myself)
• Some pets may get agitated or overwhelmed by the commotion and the presence of many people
• Members of your bridal party or team (makeup artist, hairstylist) might be allergic to pets
• Pets might accidentally interfere with makeup, touch brushes, or compromise the sanitary environment
• Attention-seeking pets can slow down your preparations
• Even typically docile animals might react unpredictably in a bustling environment
• Interruptions during makeup, hair, or dressing can add unnecessary stress
TIPS if you decide to include your pet
➤ Be honest about your pet’s temperament and comfort level in busy environments
➤ Check with your bridal party, makeup artist, hairstylist, and photographer to make sure everyone is comfortable and allergy-free
➤ Set up a safe, separate space for your pet, away from delicate dresses and makeup stations
➤ Have a trusted friend or professional pet handler manage your pet’s needs during the busy moments
While there are more reasons on the “no” list, having your pet with you can add a personal and joyful touch to your wedding day if handled thoughtfully. I love pets and welcome them, as long as they stay clear of the makeup brushes and beauty stations. In the end, choose what’s right for you, your pet, and your team, and you’ll create wonderful memories – furry friends included.